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What REALLY happened at the Tantra workshop
20 Jun 2017

What REALLY happened at the Tantra workshop

by Rebecca Stafford | posted in: Love, Sex, & Intimacy | 1

I didn’t want to go to the Tantra workshop. I had to. Because of my Policy of Yes. The Policy of Yes arose from spending the better part of a 10-year relationship under house-arrest. Not physical or legal chains. Worse. … Continued

inner critic, fear, tantra, abuse, love, intimacy, sex, identity, self-awareness
[1 Minute Psychology] How men can be courageous
1 Nov 2016

[1 Minute Psychology] How men can be courageous

by Rebecca Stafford | posted in: 1 minute psychology, Meninism & Feminism | 0

Sometimes the most terrifying, and therefore most courageous, thing you can do is admit that you are not coping and ask for support. This is what I told the men who called Lifeline crisis counseling when I volunteered there as … Continued

fear, shame, intimacy, lonely, vulnerability, Brene Brown, meninism, courage
What the sex therapist told me en route to the burlesque show
8 Feb 2016

What the sex therapist told me en route to the burlesque show

by Rebecca Stafford | posted in: Love, Sex, & Intimacy | 0

We’ll get to the sex therapist shortly. Our first port of call is sex callers at Lifeline. When I started volunteering at Lifeline crisis counselling 10 years ago, the training for ‘wannabe’ Lifeline telephone counselors was spread over a three-month … Continued

relationships, sex callers, sex therapists, intimacy, lonely, polyamory, cheating, celibate
Why Gorgeous Man* is a top-shelf lover
18 Jan 2016

Why Gorgeous Man* is a top-shelf lover

by Rebecca Stafford | posted in: Love, Sex, & Intimacy | 3

I love the sex I have with Gorgeous Man. It’s the sex I always wanted in a long-term relationship, but never had. Until now. Admittedly, Gorgeous Man and I haven’t been a couple very long. At the time of writing, this* is my third … Continued

tantra, love, relationships, intimacy, lonely, sex, foreplay, vulnerability
I wanted a trophy boyfriend
22 Dec 2015

I wanted a trophy boyfriend

by Rebecca Stafford | posted in: Love, Sex, & Intimacy | 0

I wanted a trophy boyfriend. It’s true. It’s also extremely embarrassing. Before you judge me, please know that it took me four decades to become consciously aware of this embarrassing desire. It also took me four decades to realize that, … Continued

anger, love, co-dependent, relationships, acceptance, intimacy, lonely, rejection, single, control, vulnerability, Brene Brown
Why I call Gorgeous Man Gorgeous Man*
17 Dec 2015

Why I call Gorgeous Man Gorgeous Man*

by Rebecca Stafford | posted in: Love, Sex, & Intimacy | 0

I appreciate that referring to my partner as Gorgeous Man* may be a bit nauseating, but the reasons I call him that are probably not quite what you think. Let me explain… I’ll start by blaming my beloved deceased Nana. She introduced teenage-me to her friends as “My … Continued

abuse, anger, love, depression, relationships, intimacy, sex, rejection, energy
What’s the best gift you can give someone?
2 Jan 2015

What’s the best gift you can give someone?

by Rebecca Stafford | posted in: Love, Sex, & Intimacy | 2

I’ve made some crappy decisions in my life, and I’ve made some great ones. My decision to join Lifeline as a volunteer telephone counselor was one of the best decisions of my life. This purpose of this post is to … Continued

abuse, love, acceptance, intimacy, lonely, stress, Lifeline, counseling

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